As I said a few months ago, I will be doing a series
addressing stereotypes for LGBTQ+ people—talking about people who identify
themselves as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer, as well as people
who are intersex and asexual. I look forward to continuing through this series.
As I am going in order of the acronyms for LGBTQ (or
LGBTQIA), it is time for me to discuss stereotypes associated with being
transgender. But before going into details about those stereotypes, I should
start by talking about what it means to be transgender and stereotypes
associated with friends, fellow writers, celebrities and others who are transgender.
The consensus definition is that being transgender means
that your gender identity differs from the sex that you were assigned at birth. I
should note, though, that not everyone has the exact same definition of the
Now that we’ve defined what it means to be transgender, we
can start to understand what sort of stereotypes are associated with being transgender.
Here are a few such stereotypes:
people are not “real” men or women. People who are transgender may not be
“real men” or “real women” to certain individuals, but separating the real men
and women from trans men and women is dehumanizing (as if trans men and trans
women are somehow “fake”). Just please avoid categories of realness and
women athletes have an unfair advantage. A journalist (I forget for which
outlet), when covering the success of a transgender collegiate athlete, said
that trans women are forgotten when they fail and delegitimized when they
succeed. It is true, though, and I should add that not all trans athletes who
transition from the male category to the female category (or vice-versa)
people are still fundamentally the same people they were at birth. I can’t
begin to emphasize how problematic this sort of attitude is. This is the sort
of attitude that leads to deadnaming, which is calling someone by their
birth name instead of their new chosen name. It’s also the sort of attitude
that leads to deliberate misgendering of transgender people. Having an attitude
that leads to deadnaming and misgendering is problematic, because for most
transgender people I know, their birth name and previous pronouns are a reminder
of a period of life when they tried to live as someone they were not—a great
source of pain indeed.
people are predators. For whatever reason, there is this stereotype among
some that transgender people are predators. Because of that stereotype, some
states look at, or even pass, laws that keep transgender people from using the
bathroom that fits most closely with their own gender identity. In reality,
however, the overwhelming majority of trans people just want to use a bathroom
they feel comfortable using, without all the harassment and discrimination. Is
that too much to ask?
transgender people have/had gender dysphoria. This was something I used to
think and had to unteach myself, by the way. I had to unteach myself—by
remembering that gender dysphoria is when someone experiences distress
because their biological sex does not match their gender identity.
However, many transgender people do not experience discomfort from the fact
that their gender doesn’t match with their biological sex, and therefore never
had gender dysphoria in spite of being transgender. I would also note that by
assuming that all transgender people have/had dysphoria, it promotes an
attitude, whether intended or not, that being transgender is a disorder.
This post hopefully covered some of the major stereotypes associated with being transgender. If anyone wants to add to any of my stereotypes, or has stereotypes of your own, feel free to comment below!
Previous posts in my series on LGBTQ+ stereotypes:
This is pretty close to the definition that Merriam-Webster had for
 While doing research for this piece, I found out that gender dysphoria used to be called gender identity disorder. When you connect the term “gender identity disorder” with being transgender, one can see how being transgender was considered a mental illness (not that I defend this, by any means, and in fact it was awful that being transgender was once considered a disorder).